No games just the real thing
I have found that many times a contact results in a spiral dance where the two paries try to second guess what they think the other is looking for. After a couple feeler messages the communication dries up. Hopefully if you communicate with me the intent is to arrange for intimate and wildly sexual encounters rather than play the lets be buddybuddy and plan for the wedding game. I would rather be snugglyintimate, with twisting tongues, wandering hands, and... well you have an imagination... About me... Unique, educated, travelled, humorous, intimate, imaginative, adventureous... Ask me about the pyrimids, or about cave tubing in central america, white water kayaking, sailing, sex in a convertable...
Intimate encounters with no strings attached. Be adventurous, let the inhibitions down, say what you want rather than doing the spiral dance of doom, enjoy the moment, feel, enjoy, relax, have fun.