Sex is a major element in the Brightness of Life.
Honesty is primary. I am easy going, have no domination complexes. I have a degree in English and have never stopped studying. I work hard. I've been to Europe a few times. Speak French passably well. I have good hands, I think, because I love the female body, and I love the woman's responses. I'll do anything she wants, so long as I don't end up dangling outdide a high window, naked, with a ratty dog clamped to my ass. (I love dogs.) I lived with a lesbian couple for a year. I think I knew when to be a part, and how much of a part of their love making. One of the girls was Deaf. I said I was of average build. I think I'm closer to fit, as I workout at the YMCA five to six days a week. Besides interpreting for the deaf, I play guitar and sing three or four nights a month. I know most women are not into the one night stand. I would like a connection, however brief or extended, that will give us a sense of balance and renewal.
Giving is an important element in my own arousal. I would like someone who isn't burdened by her past, at least not to the point of acting them out. It's okay if she needs to talk; I would like that very much. Someone who is authentic, who has no need for deceit, and insists on being herself.