If you wish to preserve your secret, wrap it up in frankness.
39 y.o. white male, 62", 195 lbs., brown hair, brown eyes. I am a manager in the heavy highway construction business. I like the NY football Giants, The Yankees, NYC, travelling, the beach, fishing, camping, cooking, etc... I have been told that I give great massages.
I am seeking a N.S.A. affair with a resonably attractive female. Race/Ethnicity are unimportant, however I do prefer white, asian, or hispanic women. European is a big plus. I am willing to travel (by car). I am a non smoker, and I drink on occasion.