Distinguished looking but wild
I've been mistaken for a doctor or college professor. I have a masculine but distinguished look. But, I'm a wild guy in a demure way. I've done lots of things that could have gotten me killed many times but I'm still here with a high paying job and learning to tone things down somewhat. I am an ultrarunner. I've run 8 times over 100 miles under 24 hours. I've done 27 road marathons. I'm a Buddhist practitioner and a vegetarian. But I love Nine Inch Nails.
Somebody eclectic. Not tied to the conventional wisdom. Sense of humor. Can make light of the most tragic situations. Likes to travel to off the beaten path destinations. Knows we're on this planet for a short time and makes the most of the time we have here.